1. Create a “Homework” Area
Having a dedicated workspace for homework can make a big difference. The space should be a quiet, well-lit area with minimal distractions. Have all necessary supplies- pencils, paper, calculators, and materials within reach. This reduces the interruptions and excuses to get up and move around.- In our house, we have a Homework Table with stools on one end of the living room. So far, it is working great.
2. Set a Routine
Children tend to do better when they have routines, and setting a specific homework time each day can help reduce resistance, because it is already expected. Whether it’s right after school, after a snack, or before dinner, it will create a habit. Let your child have some input in choosing a homework time that works best for them. Compromising with them helps them feel like they have some control.- For us, checking what homework needs to be done and completing it when they get home from school works best. This allows for it to be out of the way and the focus to be on what other acitivites we have that night, hockey practice, dance, etc. However, if they have larger assignments or projects, this does not always work.
3. Break It Down
Some children become overwhelmed with large assignments because they don’t know where to start. Help them break tasks into smaller, more manageable pieces. For example, if they have to write an essay, have them start with brainstorming, then an outline, and then writing one paragraph at a time.
4. Offer Choices
Kids love having control. Offering them choices makes them feel like they have a say in what they are doing, even though it is something that is being tasked by their teacher or parent. If there are multiple subjects, ask them what they want to start with first or have them write out a schedule of how they would like to organize their work for the night.
5. Remove Distractions
Phones, TV, and video games can be major distractions. Set clear rules about limiting screen time until homework is completed. If necessary, use apps that block distractions or keep devices out of reach until assignments are done. Setting downtime on phones and tablets can be a very helpful tool.
6. Provide Support
It’s important to be available for support, but giving them the answers, is not the answer. Encourage them to think critically and to think back on their lessons at school on their own. If they get stuck, prompt them with easier questions to get them thinking, “What do you think you should do next?”
7. Use Positive Reinforcement
Validation and encouragement goes a long way. Celebrate small victories, like completing an assignment on time or staying focused for a set period. For younger ages, using a reward system, like stickers or extra playtime, to keep them motivated can be helpful.
8. Time Management Skills
Teaching your child learn how to plan their homework time effectively is a skill that they will use in all aspects of life as they grow. Teach them to use planners or apps to track assignments and deadlines. Show them how to use their phones or tablets as a way to stay organize by setting reminders and making to do lists, etc. Encourage them to estimate how long tasks will take and set timers to stay on track.
9. Model Good Habits
Children are sponges and they will mimic their parents’ behavior. Be an example by reading, working, or studying alongside them. This shows that learning is a lifelong process and helps create a focused environment.- This works well in our house, as we both work from home. We can use that time to grab our laptops and be next to them getting what work we have left to do done and still be there to help when they need it.
10. Communicate with Teachers!
Keep in touch with your child’s teacher! This is the best way to understand expectations and get insights into any struggles your child may be having. Teachers can often provide useful strategies and additional support. It is also important to keep the teachers informed. If you notice your children are struggling with homework or specific subjects, reach out and see if they are having similar issues at school. The teacher may be able to send additional resources home to help.- Emails seem to be the best way for me to communicate with their teachers, but some use apps, and that it great too.
11. Breathing Time
Working on homework for long periods of time can be draining, regardless of their age. Encourage short breaks between assignments—five to ten minutes away from their work can help them refocus and have a clear mindset.
12. Be Positive!
If you view homework as a burden, they will too. Be positive and encourage a “You can do it” attitude. Show them that you are excited with all that they are learning and remind them that effort is worth everything.
13. Adapt to Your Child’s Learning Style
Every child learns differently. Some may need a quiet space, some might focus better with background music. Some kids are visual learners, while others are hands-on. Adapt your approach to fit their needs. This will help alleviate unneeded stress
14. Set Consequences
Having a clear set of rules and consequences allows them to understand the importance of completing their work and gives them responsibility and control. Sit down with your child and agree on rules regarding homework, including when and where it should be done and what happens if it isn’t completed.
15. Avoid Power Struggles
Arguing over homework only creates more tension. Instead of arguing, reinforce known consequences. For example, if they don’t complete their work, they may have to face the teacher’s consequences at school. This may mean missing recess or not being able to sit with friends at lunch.
16. Consider a Homework Buddy
Some kids work better with a study partner. A homework buddy can make assignments more enjoyable and provide peer motivation. This could be allowing siblings to study together and use each other’s strengths or this could be inviting the neighbor over for homework time.
17. Keep Communication Open
Communicate with your child. Talk about what they find difficult. Ask them what they like and dislike. Ask them about their assignments and show interest in their learning.
18. Make Homework a Priority, But Keep It Balanced
Homework is important, but so is family time, extracurricular activities, rest, etc. Ensure that your child has a well-rounded schedule that allows for both academic responsibilities and relaxation. Kids need “Me Time” too!